Frequently Asked Questions:



  1. Can I be your slave?’

    No. Rome wasn’t built in a day, and such dynamics aren’t forged simply by asking. You need to earn that privilege. You can earn that privilege by sessioning with Me on the regular, and or by being a frequent film slave, as examples. I will decide if you are best fit for the job.

  2. You have not responded back to my email/chat/miscellaneous message. Why?’

    There are only so many hours in the day. I try my best to respond in a prompt fashion, but am sometimes unable to respond ASAP. Your patience is appreciated.

  3. ‘Can I buy your (insert item of miscellaneous nature here)?’

    The answer is usually yes. I am working on the ‘store’ page for my site as we speak, but if you are very eager, I suggest sending me a polite email at mistressmara@protonmail.com with an inquiry about the item you are interested in. I can say that pantyhose, stockings, and other ‘worn’ items will be up for grabs, just to tease you with some examples.

  4. ‘Do you see couples/women/lgbtqia/non-binary/trans people?

    Of course! I welcome most people, 18 or older, of all backgrounds and orientations. The only exception are jerks, so don’t be one!

  5. Will you let me film our session?’

    I am happy to contribute to your smut collection; I will record, edit, and watermark the content for you to download discreetly.

  6. How should I address you?’

    ’Mistress,’ ‘Mistress Mara,’ or ‘Ma’am’ will suffice just fine. Don’t call me ‘Goddess’ or ‘Miss;’ I hate both of those, and while earlier in my career was called ‘Miss Mara,’ I no longer feel that that is a good representation of my style and demeanor.

  7. ‘Are you available for dinner/coffee/shopping excursions and outings?’

    Absolutely! Tribute and planning details for such adventures can be discussed via email. I suggest ample planning, as My schedule does book up quickly.

  8. ‘What is your cancellation policy?’

    Even the best laid plans can sometimes get sidelined. Should you need to cancel, ample notice is required and appreciated.
    If you cancel less than 12 hours before our designated session time, you are expected to pay the full Tribute; after all, I have planned my schedule around our scene, and this is my livelihood.

  9. What’s a session like with you?

    Truthfully, I cannot honestly say. So much of the scene’s pace and tone depends upon how you behave and react and communicate.

    What I can say is that no two scenes are alike, and that you will find my personality direct, thoughtful, and witty.

  10. Are you available same-day?

    Same day sessions are usually not a possibility, unless I am traveling and you abide to all my screening and deposit requirements.

    Should you be in Chicago (my home turf), and desiring a same day soirée, be aware that the session tribute will be substantially greater than if you had planned ahead. After all, if I have to break off my appointments and obligations to entertain your last minute weenie-wantings, I must be compensated accordingly.

    Ergo, planning ahead is highly encouraged and appreciated.

  11. Is our correspondence completely private?

    Of course! All forms of communication between us remains confidential. My eyes are the only pair that will see your application form, texts, and emails. I value privacy above all else.

  12. Can I use you as a reference if we have met in the past?

    I am happy to act as a reference to you if you and I have met in the previous past 12 months. I require notice for such inquiries.

  13. Can I be a video slave?

    In order to qualify for shooting, you must be 21 or older, be able to sign off on a model release form, be comfortable showing me your I.D for said release forms, be in relatively good and flexible shape, have sessioned with Me previously (at least twice), be comfortable either showing your face on camera or comfortable in a mask/hood, and be willing to pay a discounted tribute fee for the pleasure of filming with Me.

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